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Hope is Radical: Real TTC stories of finding hope in uncertainty

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Most people portray trying to conceive as a simple, straight line. You try, you wait, and you hope for a positive pregnancy test. But anyone who’s lived it, knows that real TTC stories are messier.

TTC journeys rarely unfold in neat, predictable lines. In the spaces between cycles, symptoms, and hope, women are left with one overwhelming truth: they often don’t know what’s happening inside their own bodies. “I sometimes feel like I have imposter syndrome, that my body isn’t doing what it’s supposed to do…” Varsha,32, explains.

That uncertainty wears people down. At some point, the waiting stops feeling like patience and starts feeling like surrender. Cierra, 23, reached that edge: “I was kind of getting ready to give up. I was starting to really worry… I was kind of accepting, like, it’s going to take me forever to have children.”

This is where Hope Is Radical begins. Five women moving through uncertainty in their own ways, shaped by loss, delays, and unwelcome turns. What changed their path wasn’t luck or forced optimism. It was finally having real data on their side. Seeing their cycles in real time cut through the guessing and gave their choices direction. Hormone tracking helped with answers, replaced instinct with insight, and gave each woman a new kind of hope.

Disclaimer: Charts shown are illustrative and do not represent the actual data of individuals featured.

Of IUIs, IVFs, And Miscarriages

Sierra, 29
Sierra, at 29, started where many do. Quiet optimism, a private countdown, and the belief that her body would follow the script. But it didn’t.

Illustration of Sierra under a canopy. She is looking up, with hope in her eyes.

There were months of medication. Three IUIs. Two IVF transfers that ended in miscarriages and heartbreaks. A laparoscopic surgery finally revealed endometriosis. Every next step felt smaller, like the door was slowly closing. As she put it, “we kind of felt almost as if we were giving up… I didn’t really have a lot of hope left that we were going to get pregnant.”

After her second surgery, a specialist told her she could get pregnant naturally. She found a holistic doctor, and that led her to Inito. At first, the charts and hormone patterns were overwhelming. But the Inito Facebook community explained each spike, calmed her spirals, and celebrated every small win.

Five months into tracking, Sierra saw something she hadn’t seen in four and a half years: a positive pregnancy test. No meds. No injections. Just her body and a device the size of a lipstick.

An Inito chart showing anovulation by tracking all four fertility hormones - Estrogen, LH, PdG, and FSH. There is a rise in LH level without a subsequent rise in PdG level, thereby not confirming ovulation.

Her hCG was low. Days later, she miscarried. She said that moment hit hard: “I was very sad and that everything was being taken away as quickly as we got it.” A moment that is familiar in some TTC after miscarriage journeys.

But now that she knows her body can ovulate. Can get pregnant. With each cycle and every PdG rise, through tracking progesterone’s urine metabolite, she’s rebuilding something she thought she’d lost for good. Hope.

Hope grounded in data. Hope built through community.

In her words, “If you are struggling, I just want you to know that you are not alone. There is an entire community of women who are going through the same thing as you are… Not that anybody wants to be, but it is great.

For her, hope was a Facebook group at 2 am, reminding her she isn’t alone.

Sierra gazes ahead, the text beside her reads ‘Hope is a Facebook group at 2am.’

When Starting Young Doesn’t Mean It’s Easy

Cierra, 23

At 23, Cierra was tired of hearing, “When are you having a baby?”

She grew up in a crowded family without the one thing she needed most: her mom. Raised by her aunt and uncle, she watched other kids with their mothers and made a quiet promise one day, she’d be the kind of mom she never had. As she puts it, “When I was growing up, I did always want to be a mom. I always had baby dolls… I always loved the idea of being a mom, especially because my relationship with my birth mom wasn’t too good.”

Illustration of Cierra resting calmly beside a window under bright sunlight.

At 21, newly engaged to her long-haul truck-driver fiancé, she started trying. When her period disappeared for six months, bloodwork finally gave it a name: PCOS. No insurance, irregular cycles, months without ovulation. IVF was out of reach. “Going to the doctor constantly was extremely expensive, especially because at the time I didn’t have insurance,” she says. She tried metformin, diet changes, and every tip she could find online. Her experience echoes many TTC with PCOS stories where access, timing, and clarity collide.

Late-night scrolling led her to one option that kept coming up: Inito. Still a stretch, but cheaper than another clinic visit and something she could use anywhere.

Most days she was in the passenger seat of a semi, crossing states with her fiancé. The clinic was hundreds of miles away, but Inito lived in the truck with them. She tested in rest-stop bathrooms, watching the numbers.

An Inito chart showing multiple LH surges and anovulation by tracking all four fertility hormones - Estrogen, LH, PdG, and FSH. There are multiple rises in LH levels without a subsequent rise in PdG level, thereby not confirming ovulation.

At first, there was no PdG rise, no confirmed ovulation. Then one cycle, the pattern shifted. PdG rising. Ovulation confirmed. And a few weeks later, a pregnancy test turned positive.

Now, when her son Ivan looks up at her, she isn’t just someone who broke a family pattern. She’s the mother she once needed, building the kind of home she used to imagine. What this really means is simple: Hope isn’t measured in years.

Cierra sits before her bed as the text reads ‘Hope isn’t measured in years.’

When Loss Reshapes What Hope Looks Like

Kelsey, 28

Kelsey grew up surrounded by siblings, noise, and the kind of family rhythm she wanted to recreate. “I’ve wanted to be a mom almost my whole life,” she explains.

After her first daughter, she assumed adding another child would come easily. Instead, her cycle didn’t return for 13-14 months postpartum, she was diagnosed with PCOS, and she experienced multiple miscarriages. Like a lot of TTC stories, the diagnosis didn’t come with direction.

Illustration of Kelsey sitting at her kitchen table, as warm sunlight fills the room.

She was given a label but no plan, and had to navigate an already emotional process alone.

That uncertainty turned into searching. Googling symptoms, trying supplements, and relying on LH strips that didn’t reflect what her body was actually doing. “I spent so much time in the bathroom just trying to look at the color of the strip… am I progressing, am I not?” And with PCOS, the false peaks only added confusion: “you often do get multiple LH spikes… but there’s only one each cycle that’s actually your ovulation. So it was all very confusing ” She was trying on the wrong days without knowing it.

An Inito chart showing ovulation by tracking all four fertility hormones - Estrogen, LH, PdG, and FSH. There are multiple rises in LH levels followed by a subsequent rise in PdG level, thereby confirming ovulation.

Things finally shifted when she tried Inito. For the first time, she could see her full hormone pattern: estrogen rising, then LH, then PdG. It showed her real six-day fertile window and confirmed ovulation, so she wasn’t stuck waiting two weeks in cycles where it never even happened.

For her, hormone tracking was emotional as much as clinical. Understanding her cycle helped her move from fear to calm. “I learned that I actually do ovulate even if it takes my body a little bit longer.” That insight helped her believe she wasn’t broken. Her timing was different. Two cycles after she started tracking her real fertile window, she was pregnant. Looking back, she says, “Now I just really feel like I understand what’s going on inside my body.”

When she finally held a positive test in her hand, it felt like a scene she and her husband had replayed in their minds so many times.

Her story shows that the path isn’t linear, and that hope grows stronger when it’s rooted in understanding. After all, hope is learning to believe again.

Kelsey sits at the kitchen table. The text reads ‘Hope is learning to believe again.’

When Knowledge Becomes Its Own Kind of Power

Varsha, 32

For Varsha, motherhood is more than instinct. Growing up in an immigrant family, she saw each generation build up on the sacrifices of the last. It’s that sense of responsibility that defines her motivation to be a mother and carry the legacy forward.

Varsha suspected PCOS as early as 16, but was repeatedly dismissed by medical professionals. “It took me about a decade,” she says, “and that decade delay, I feel, kind of changed the whole trajectory of my life.” So when she and her husband started trying, she approached it like a strategist: tracking, researching, documenting. “I was my own test subject. Literally every month I was testing, temping, and tracking… keeping all of the data.” Her story mirrors many TTC with PCOS stories shaped by long-term uncertainty.

Illustration of Varsha radiating confidence as beams of sunlight highlight her face.

Even then, there were limits to what she could see. Ovulation strips, basal body temping, cervical mucus, spreadsheets of symptoms. None definitive. Inito changed that.

In her first cycle, she discovered she hadn’t ovulated. It was not a guess, but a fact shown with clear numbers.

When she finally saw an ovulation-confirmation result in a later cycle, it felt like a victory. “With PCOS, I feel sometimes like I have imposter syndrome, that my body isn’t doing what it’s supposed to do,” she says. “But Inito gives me proof that I am ovulating and my cycles are working.” Knowing that she is ovulating, knowing that her body is doing what it’s supposed to do, “… gives me all the confidence that I’m going to have a baby.”

An Inito chart showing anovulation by tracking all four fertility hormones - Estrogen, LH, PdG, and FSH. The LH levels are consistently rising without a subsequent rise in PdG level, thereby not confirming ovulation.

With that insight, she began to trust her body again. “I feel so empowered. I feel in control,” she smiles, finally able to work with her body instead of against it. For her, that confidence grew from precise hormone tracking and steady tracking of progesterone’s urine metabolite PdG through each cycle.

Now at 32, her TTC story is still unfolding, but she’s walking into it informed, grounded, and fully in power. Because sometimes hope isn’t a feeling at all. Sometimes hope is a binder full of bloodwork.

Varsha is on the sofa beside the text, ‘Hope is a binder full of bloodwork.’

When “Too Late” Isn’t the Truth

Karla, 37

For years, Karla kept postponing the start of her TTC journey. Two more years to focus on work. Two more years before settling down. She was busy building something she loved.

“I’ve always been very career driven,” she says. “I kept pushing it in my head — okay, I’m going to wait two more years, two more years.” In the middle of that, she moved countries, and built a life in Dallas. “Now I own my own business… I have my own dance studio and I teach dancing for a living.”

Illustration of Karla smiling with joy.

But time has a way of catching up, and by the time she felt ready, she was 34, standing at the intersection of her own dreams and statistics that didn’t inspire hope.

She got pregnant, lost the pregnancy, and grief sat with her in ways she didn’t expect. Meanwhile, friends around her announced pregnancies; she celebrated them with joy and quiet heartbreak. “It was really difficult to see our friends having a bunch of babies,” she remembers. “I was extremely happy for them, but I could only stay maybe 30 minutes at a baby shower before I’d turn to my husband and say, ‘Can we go?’”

Determined not to give up, she threw herself into research, consultations, and eventually IVF. When the first round failed, she confronted a fear she’d avoided for years: What if this never happens for me? The ticking of her biological clock echoed in the background, but she refused to let it define her. “I was told that it was very tough to get pregnant after 35… but I refused to give up.” She needed answers, not platitudes. Precision, not pep talks.

An Inito chart showing ovulation by tracking all four fertility hormones - Estrogen, LH, PdG, and FSH. There is a rise in LH level followed by a subsequent rise in PdG level, confirming ovulation.

That’s when she found Inito. She’d been hunting for something more specific than a simple ovulation strip. “I was looking for a test that could measure several hormones, not just one day at the doctor,” she explains. “I just wanted to know why my body was behaving in a certain way.” For the first time, she could see exactly what her hormones were doing across her cycle and understand why her body behaved the way it did. “It made me feel powerful because it gave me exactly what I needed… information about my body,” she says. That clarity, built through careful hormone tracking, helped her rebuild trust in herself.

And then it finally happened. A pregnancy at 37 that felt like a miracle. A baby who moves each day, reminding her that her story didn’t run out of time.

She didn’t run out of time. She just needed the right information. Her journey sits beside so many ttc success stories that prove timing isn’t a verdict; it’s context.

At the end of the day, hope doesn’t have a biological clock.

Karla stands in sunlight as the text reads, ‘Hope doesn’t have a biological clock.’

Hope Is Radical

Different ages, different diagnoses, different heartbreaks. Their paths couldn’t have been more different, yet each story shared a pivotal moment of clarity.

They didn’t just get lucky. They finally got data.

With real hormone insights, confusion turned into clarity and fear into hope. The kind that grows when hormone tracking finally shows what your body has been trying to tell you.

Hope isn’t naïve; it’s powerful. It’s what keeps you searching for answers, asking better questions, and believing that clarity is possible even when the path feels impossible.

These women didn’t find hope by accident. Sierra, Cierra, Kelsey, Karla, Varsha, and so many others found that strength in understanding their bodies more deeply and realizing they were not alone. Their journeys are emotional, complex, and beautifully human, and hearing them in their own words brings an even deeper sense of connection.

If you’re somewhere on your own TTC path, their voices may be the reminder you need today: clarity can change everything, and hope is worth holding onto.

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